Cambodian girls are taught to do housework like cooking, cleaning, taking care younger siblings and helping parents at the rice field. So she is called, "A good daughter of the family." In the previous years, Cambodian girls were thought to not necessary to go to school because at the end she will become a wife and a mother, so it's really important for her to just learn how to cook, taking care the house, and know how to manage money that her husband earns. Things have gradually changed regarding education for girls, media and NGOs have worked in making a change within Cambodia's communities; many of parents and girls themselves understand the value of education. Girls must be independent and having a good job to support herself; it's not only husband's duty to earn income to support the family, but also girls (wife). Domestic violence would caused by a husband who is a head of the family, and he works hard to support the entire family. Therefore, a wife who is a housewife seems to put in the lower level because she earns nothing and she does thousand jobs at home without pay. Sometimes a husband blamed his wife for no reason once he returns home with the bad mood/stressful from work. He would say he works so hard every day, and she doesn't do anything, just stay at home, it's too easy...etc. |